|Getting The Most From A Romantic
Romantic relationships happen because
of the hopes and dreams a couple has for a happy life together. Being concerned
with what is good about the relationship is what makes the relationship good.
Being too concerned with the problems that a relationship has will take away
from the enjoyment that the relationship can provide.
This article suggests ways for staying
aware of what makes your romantic relationship worthwhile.
Don't Expect Too Much --
Don't expect a perfect relationship.
That happens only in fairy tales. If you expect everything to be wonderful,
it makes your relationship less valuable by comparison. Problems will occur.
You will get hurt. Don't be so concerned with the problems that you loose
awareness of what is good in the relationship.
Romance and love will more likely happen
if you allow them to happen instead of making them a goal. If you make love
the goal, you will compare how the relationship is now to what you think
it should be. You will be continually disappointed. Making the relationship
better should be the goal. Pay attention to treating each other fairly and
helping each other. If love happens, it will be based on believing that both
of you can continue to build a good relationship.
Your attitude should signal the other
person that you will try to patiently work through each other's shortcomings.
It won't be easy. Being tolerant and non-condemning is a challenge. But
consciously making an effort to be tolerant goes a long way.
Build Upon What Is Good --
Find activities that you both like and
do them together. These can be activities such as gardening, cooking, hobbies,
conversation, recreation, an interest in art, charity volunteering, and family
activities. Having interests that are shared, keeps a couple involved in
each other's lives.
Share ideas to find ways to more enjoy
living. Tell your sweetheart about strategies you use for such things as
achieving goals and enjoying yourself. Tell each other about what you think
is interesting, what is worthwhile, and what is encouraging. If you share
positive ideas, you will think of each other as pleasant and enjoyable.
Encourage your partner to act and make
decisions. Both of you will be able to accomplish more with the other's support
and encouragement. When there is a disagreement, be patient. If you need
to criticize, offer a positive alternative rather than a condemnation. Your
encouragement likely will produce more good results than will your
The good things in life are much more
important than the disappointments. Reward yourself for the good in what
you are doing and take some time to do what you enjoy.
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