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How to Ask for a Gratifying
Sex Life
By
Sharon
Koenig
So your relationship has changed over
the years since you said I do and sex isnt what it use
to be. First you should know that this is normal and common place in the
majority of marriages. Knowing that you are not alone does not make you feel
any better nor does it get you the satisfying sex life that you once had.
You simply cant go through the trials of life without changing.
Some men and women feel that if their
spouse is not interested in sex, this gives them license to have an affair.
Being in a committed marital relationship puts the responsibility on you
to improve your marital sex. Though bringing the passion back into your marriage
is not a one-way street. At the end of the day, you can only change
yourself.
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Take a look at your lifestyle first;
this will help you determine what needs to change. If your are both so tired
from dealing with children, work, money and household chores then no wonder
your time between the sheets is a wee bit dull. So you find that you are
both working 24 hours a day seven days a week, now you realize that it is
time for a break and enjoy each other just like you once did when life was
a little more carefree.
One of THE BIGGEST mistakes a couple
can make is to not pay for child care, pay for a maid or take little mini
vacations, in a nutshell, taking time for each other without all of the stresses
of running a home and family. Yes, I can hear you saying that this is costly.
Let me put it to you this way, would you rather pay for a maid every now
and then to give your wife a break or a Marriage Councilor or worst a Divorce
Attorney. I know, not every sexually dissatisfied relationship ends in divorce
however a dissatisfied sex life is statistically one of the biggest reasons
that people get divorced. So here is a little tip for you to improve marital
sex.
Locate a Parents Night out service to
care for the children and take your time with each other to do the things
that you fell in love with in the first place. Other things that you can
do, is to take a little more pride in how you look. Studies show that men
respond to visual stimulation so ladies, take head and spruce your self up
from time to time. Lets face it, the sweatpants are great for doing
chores around the house but when your husband comes home from work, freshen
up for him and maybe even make your man melt when he lays eyes on you. Men
are not off the hook here either, that extra tire around the waist may need
to go. If youve been carrying around too much extra weight since your
dating days, maybe its time to get a Health Club membership. These
behaviors happen to all of us, its easy to fall into a rut; thats
ok but if you want more passion, then act like youre dating each other
all over again. I cant guarantee that you will get some tonight but
you are no doubt on the right track.
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Lets not forget about communication.
This is touchy though if you have a spouse who is uncomfortable talking about
sex. If you choose to put this effort forth, you must bring up this subject
in a calm; relaxing environment. Talking about this during a marital argument
is a definite no-no. Bringing blame or being defensive wont solve the
problem either. Above all be patient with each other, try new things, have
a sense of humor and remember to make time for a date night which of course
includes time for a spicy, passionate sex life.
Often sex is plentiful just simply boring.
It is a challenge for most married couples to add newness. Trying new love
making positions or even experimenting with adult sex toys could bring you
right out of the rut you are both in. To learn more and to discover free
sex tips to improve your marital sex, log on to www.sweetintimacy.com.
©Copyright 2004 Innovative
Associates.
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Sharon Koenig writes articles,
free tips and advice intended to improve marital sex since
2002.
If your sex life isn't what it
use to be when you fell in love, then it's time to learn a few tips from
the Love Experts at:
www.sweetintimacy.com
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