Keeping A Marriage Romantic
Romantic relationships happen because
of the hopes and dreams a couple has for a happy life together. The relationship
will be pleasant and rewarding as long as you are aware of what inspires
those hopes and dreams.
This article suggests ways for staying
aware of what makes your relationship worthwhile and wonderful.
Nothing is perfect --
Don't expect a perfect relationship.
That happens only in fairy tales. Problems will occur. You will get hurt.
Being too concerned with the problems will stop you from paying enough attention
to what is good in the relationship.
If perfection is the goal, you will compare
how the relationship is now to what you think it should be. You will be
continually disappointed. Making the relationship better should be the goal.
If love happens, it will be based on believing that both of you can continue
to build a good relationship.
Your attitude should signal the other
person that you will try to patiently work through each other's shortcomings.
It won't be easy. Being tolerant and non-condemning is a challenge. But
consciously making an effort to be tolerant goes a long way.
Build Upon What Is Good --
Find activities that you both like and
do them together. These can be activities such as gardening, cooking, hobbies,
conversation, recreation, an interest in art, charity volunteering, and family
activities. Having interests that are shared, keeps a couple involved in
each other's lives.
Share ideas to find ways to more enjoy
living. Tell your sweetheart about strategies you use for such things as
achieving goals and enjoying yourself. Tell each other about what you think
is interesting, what is worthwhile, and what is encouraging. If you share
positive ideas, you will think of each other as pleasant and enjoyable.
Encourage your partner to act and make
decisions. Both of you will be able to accomplish more with the other's support
and encouragement. When there is a disagreement, be patient. If you need
to criticize, offer an attractive alternative rather than a condemnation.
Your encouragement likely will produce more good results than will your
The good things in life are much more
important than the disappointments. Reward yourself and your partner for
the good in what you are doing and take some time to do what you enjoy.
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